"untold stories"

Sometimes i feel there were things which could have been changed if i wud have taken the popular path . some things had to be ommited and others altered so that life could be more resolved,but then again my mind always asked whether all this can really be altered .well the answer is always negative.most of the people i meet always see my happy face and feel i am a tension free boy , average in studies ,  no girlfriend (or may be he has but never tell us) and jolly.the thing is everybody has tensions and i never had a kickstart carrer to boast of and to be carefree .the thing is my nature doesn't allow me to show the trouble on my face , not because i am afraid that anybody else would be getting troubled because of me ,but the thing is that i don't want to share the problem because it reminds me that i have a problem and i start thinking on it again. people say sharing problems can give u multiple solutions but i have my own ways.another thing in life is selecting priorities.people are very confused in choosing life partners ,boyfriends and girlfriends wasting time and money in meeting ,waiting ,fighting ,resolving issues etc.i always beleive that first focus should be on issues in hand. i am not settled yet in terms of carrer and income is not permanent ,so what is the point in wasting time on that girl whom u cant marry because "no carrer",and if u marry then problems persists.first work for your living .if u have money to support 2 people , hop down to others priorities . showing love and affection is good and it shows how much u love her,but that shouldn't hinder ur performance and if it is hampering ur performance ,then that means u never made a right choice.there was a time when i had a perception and i  still have it sometimes that whenver i laugh and am having a good time, then trouble starts coming up and problems knock my door because somewhere someone is seeing me and he's thinking that the chap is having a good laugh ,let's send him some spices so that the curry balance up. so whenver i am having a laugh ,i keep on saying to myself that this is only a short laugh ,am not enjoying that much , problems are still there ,so as to send a msg to that imaginary person that am already mixed up in  that sweet and spicy curry.


abhinav pandey

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  1. AnonymousJune 14, 2013 at 11:17 PM

    Amazing Abhinav, wow! Well said Captain America . Only one thing I'd like to say, that lady ll be very lucky, whomsoever you ll be with. One thing that is so wrong with our generation (including me as well), guys spend so much time chasing after girls who don't care for them, and girls go back to the same guys who treat'em like sh!t. If we could all just think like you, we ll be so happy and contribute towards the progress and development of our society and even our country as well.

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  2. UnknownJune 15, 2013 at 3:32 AM

    yes i agree with u anubhav.although am not a big hotshot and have a amazing carrer,bu still priorities matter

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  3. AnonymousJune 15, 2013 at 3:56 AM

    So modest of you. The story was very inspirational but that's not the only reason I liked it, I like it more because of the fact that you actually follow what you wrote, and although you wouldn't admit, but all of us who knows you know that. And talking about career buddy, mark my words , 3 years down the line, you are going to be one of the most successful person that Ramjas had ever produced.

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